If you're sending the mail from your hosting plan, you're actually using the wrong relay server. Configure your forum pages to send through relay-hosting.secureserver.net as the relay server. Also, you'll need to specify port 25 for outgoing mail. There's no login requirements to send through this server.
Let us know if that helps.
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